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Are you paying attention? James Avramenko (writer, poet, teacher) is trying to. Friendless is a podcast about paying attention — to yourself, to the people around you, and to the ideas and conversations that help you make sense of being a person. Some weeks that looks like a practical skills episode on emotional regulation, how to actually listen, or the slow work of knowing yourself better. Some weeks it's an honest conversation with a guest, recorded live at an indie bookstore in Vancouver. An engaging and honest look at connection, intimacy, and self-compassion — minus the wellness-industry bullshit. Fun and safety, Sweet Peas!
Jan. 30, 2024

You're Doing Better Than You Think (January Lil' Guy)

You're Doing Better Than You Think (January Lil' Guy)

In this very special episode of "Friendless," host James Avramenko delves into themes of self-forgiveness and the distinction between behaving badly and behaving dangerously. He explores internal narratives, accountability, and the impact versus intention dynamic in societal and interpersonal interactions.

Reflecting on his own behaviour, James emphasises the importance of personal accountability and the danger of using trauma as an excuse for harmful actions. He also discusses the challenges of forgiveness, the concept of justice, and the need for proactive effort in maintaining long-distance friendships.

The episode concludes with a reflection on recent personal ups and downs, the speaker's writing projects and social media success, and a message of love and well wishes. Tune in for an insightful and resonant exploration of self-forgiveness and personal growth.

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