The Comforts of Kink (with Eddie Torres)

Welcome to another episode of Friendless, where we delve into the complexities of human connection and the pursuit of creative fulfillment. 

In this episode, our host James Avramenko is joined by the talented artist, Eddie Torres. Eddie opens up about the pressure to constantly create content for the algorithm, feeling trapped on a hamster wheel that kills creativity. They share their fascination with exploring the world of kink and dom/sub relationships, inspired by a beautiful display of Shabari they came across on Instagram.

But Eddie's journey as an artist is not without its challenges and self-doubt. They discuss the shame and embarrassment they feel about being a poet, fearing the judgment and failure that may come with identifying as such. Eddie reflects on their early experiences studying advertising and communications in Brazil, and how it led them to pursue a second degree in fashion design, ultimately embracing their identity as an artist.

Loneliness and isolation are recurring themes in Eddie's life, and they candidly discuss the difficulties of making and maintaining friendships, especially during the pandemic. They wonder how others find solace in long-distance relationships and explore the power dynamics at play in the audition room and the need for artists to surround themselves with those in different mediums to avoid unhealthy competition.

Throughout the conversation, James and Eddie navigate these topics with sensitivity and curiosity, reminding us of the importance of secure connections and celebrating the joy of others.

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